Frequently Asked Questions

There's a common myth that only men should think about condoms, but that couldn't be more wrong. Protection is a shared responsibility. Sexual health is about partnership, communication, and mutual respect. Women and girls have every right and every decision to take part of their sexual health. And here is something many don't realize that they are also female condoms. They give women more control, more choice, more power to protect themselves. Using condoms isn't only a man's job. It is a team effort. When both partners make safety a priority, everyone wins. Healthier relationship, stronger trust, and peace of mind.

Many people out there believe if a person is looking healthy, they can spread HIV or they can't be positive. But that's also a myth. The only way you can know of someone's status is either they have disclosed to you that they are living positive or after going for a test with them and they share with you the results, which are either positive or negative. So it's most important that you get to know your status. Remember, being positive is not the end of life. You can still live to achieve your goals as long as you adhere to treatment and follow the doctor's prescriptions.

Can HIV be spread through saliva? No. However, deep kissing can pose risks if both partners have open or bleeding gums, which is extremely rare. But the most important thing is the first step to a healthy relationship is to visit a health facility, get tested together with your partner and live a normal life.

Some people believe that you can wash and reuse a condom, but this is completely false. Condoms are designed for one time use only. Once a condom is used, it weakens and loses its protective ability. Washing it doesn't restore it, and reusing it puts you at greater risk of acquiring HIV, STI, and also getting unended pregnancies. It's a safety tool meant to protect you once and throw it away for safety. I know it's cost concern but many clinics and facilities provide these condoms for free. Come at the teenage center and pick for yourself free condoms for your own safety.

Most people say they don't need a condom with a person they trust. Trust only will not save you from contracting HIV, contracting STI like gonorrhoea, syphilis, candida and many other illnesses. And also it will not save you from unwanted pregnancies. So making sure that you test for HIV is a way to prevent yourself from contracting the disease and also using a condom correctly keeps you safe from STI and unwanted pregnancies.

Consent is freely given, enthusiastic, ongoing agreement to engage in sexual activity. It can be withdrawn at any time, must be given by someone capable of consenting, and is essential for healthy, respectful sexual relationships. Consent cannot be given when someone is intoxicated, unconscious, or under pressure.

Open, honest communication is key. Discuss sexual history, STI testing, contraception preferences, boundaries, and consent before becoming sexually active. Choose a comfortable, private setting and approach the conversation with respect and without judgment.